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Floral Mini Dress

Floral Mini Dress

Here is the thing I love about For Love & Lemons -- they take soft, feminine patterns and silhouettes and add an unexpected element of sexy. Whether it is a low neckline, open back, mini hemline, or strategically placed sheer/nude panels, For Love & Lemons has certainly mastered the art of flirtatious dressing.

While most of their items are not office appropriate per se, I love their flirty, easy to wear dresses for weekends, travel, and nights out. I have never struggled to find work clothing, but I always seem to struggle to find "night out" attire. I feel like you can only wear skinny jeans and a cute blouse for dinner and drinks so many times before you need something different. Enter For Love & Lemons. Their clothing is perfect for a girls night out, dinner and drinks, and espeically a date.

I think this floral, flirty number is my favorite purchase from For Love & Lemons to date. The cut of the dress is perfection. It manages to be flattering and flirty without being tight. In fact, it actually has a loose fit (I am wearing a small FYI). The soft floral pattern and sweet pastel color palette is juxtaposed with the mini hemline and strategically placed nude panels on the upper thighs. While it could be easily be dressed up for evening (and made extra sexy with heels), I dressed it down with a fisherman's hat (my new favorite fall accessory) and burgundy cross-body bag for an afternoon in St. Petersburg.

Shop this dress and more of my favorites from For Love & Lemons below!



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Ashley B
My Fall Wish List

My Fall Wish List

I do a lot of online window shopping. It is part of my morning routine while enjoying my coffee. I love scrolling through new arrivals and seeing what styles, colors, and silhouettes are trending. RewardStyle makes it easy to save my online likes (even into different categories), which makes it super easy to collect and analyze what I am liking. This also keeps me from impulse buying. If you don't have RewardStyle, you can also do this on Pinterest.

I like to collect new arrivals and see what will work with my current wardrobe. It also helps me collect similar items and decide which particular style or price point works best for me and my budget. Where do I want to splurge this season and where can I save? Bookmarking items also gives me the sense of purchasing or shopping without spending money, which is always a good thing! If you want to keep up with my most recent likes, you can always click "MY WISH LIST" under the "GET THE LOOK" tab at the top of the page.

My online shopping over the past couple weeks (I have had lots of time during my move and Irma to do substantial online window shopping) has definitely revealed several key trends that I am definitely wanting to add to my fall wardrobe -- more yellow, military details, vintage accessories, velvet, millennial pink, and bold sleeves.

Of course, not all of the items saved to my wish list are realistic. Sometimes it is fun to save dream or inspirational pieces. This can help you develop your personal style and find similar items in your price-point.

You can shop my current fall wish list below:

What items, colors, or silhouettes are topping your wish list this fall?

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Ashley B
The Truth About the Academic Job Market

The Truth About the Academic Job Market

This should not come as a surprise to you if you are thinking of going on (or are currently on) the academic job market -- it sucks! It is pretty much like The Hunger Games out there.

If you were not aware of this, or don't know anything about the current state of higher ed/academia, let me break it down for you real quick. As more and more universities are being run "like a business," they are making the majority of their decisions based on profit margin and not on student achievement/success or the pursuit of knowledge. Now, you might think, "doesn't this mean higher salaries for professors and better fiscal management?"Nope. The only ones profiting from this are upper-level administrators. Students are paying more than ever and their professors are making less than ever.

The assault on higher ed is particularly frightening in the humanities. Simply put the STEM fields (science, technology, engineering, and mathematics) bring tangible economic benefits to the university, unlike the humanities. So, these fields tend to be better funded, while disciplines like English, History, and Anthropology are continually underfunded. For example, to save money when a tenured history professor retires, the university simply hires a couple adjuncts to replace them. Rarely does the university hire another tenured track professor (for whom the university would have to fund research, travel, professional development, healthcare, and retirement).

This means that the jobs that should exist for graduating PhDs no longer exist. And, as their research funding continues to erode, they are forced to take temporary or adjunct teaching positions. When a standard tenure-track position does become available, hundreds of well-qualified PhDs are fighting for one job.

The sad reality is that most students are not even aware of the eroding of their education (especially in the humanities). They are being taught by exploited adjunct faculty who are teaching too many classes just to survive. Thus, they cannot care as much about individual students, course innovation, or competitive research.

You might be wondering, "what is wrong with hiring an adjunct?" I am not disparaging adjuncts. These are well-educated, and in many cases high-achieving, individuals in their field. My problem is with their exploitation. Someone with a PhD should not be earning part time pay with no healthcare because the university wants to save money. The average adjunct makes $2,987 per course. That means they would have to teach 20 classes a year to make 60k, and that is still without any benefits.* Nor should students, who are in many cases going into immense debt for their degree, have sub-par or overworked faculty.

Now you might be thinking, "well if you have to adjunct at first to get by, that's ok if it leads to a full-time or tenured position." This is a false promise, do not fall for it. The course load of an adjunct does not give them the necessary time to research, write, and publish, all of which are essential to landing a full-time position. Simply put, adjuncts are less competitive on the job market.

I am sharing this for two reasons. First, if you are a college student demand the faculty you deserve for the price you are paying. And second, becuase I think it is important that students who are thinking of a career in higher ed are fully aware of what is happening and the reality they will face -- you will likely not get your dream professorship, and if you are lucky enough to get job, you will likely have to move across country and shoulder a heavy teaching load with few of the academic benefits you once envisioned.

Of course, I was mostly aware of all of this when I entered my PhD program. Do I regret pursuing a PhD in history? Absolutely not. It was the best thing I ever did for myself. It made me more thoughtful and analytical in every aspect of my life. That said, however, I went in with my eyes wide open. I knew the challenges I would face and tried to position myself strategically to ensure I would be able to build a sustainable career when I graduated. Thank goodness I was successful, and I am so grateful for my amazing advisors and the support I received along the way.

I know this is long and a pretty doom-and-gloom kind of post. But I think it is important that people are aware of what is going on. I also have a couple follow up posts in the works in which I plan to share tips on how to position yourself to more successfully in order to better navigate this hostile job market.

I would love to hear your thoughts on this and some of your experiences on the academic job market below!

PS - Don't even get me started on how little we pay primary and secondary teachers. What is wrong with us? It is time to change and value education! Businesses invest in what is important... just saying.

*PPS - What kind of historian would I be if I did not give you sources for my data? I pulled my data from The Chronicle of Higher Education and Inside Higher Education. You can read more on adjunct statistics and pay here and here.

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Ashley B
Fall Hat Guide

Fall Hat Guide

As I unpacked my new bedroom, I came to a realization -- I am a crazy hat lady... and I am totally fine with that!

But seriously, there are currently 13 hats hanging on my wall (like the little works of art they truly are).

I got into hats years ago out of necessity. Long days touring under the Tuscan sun was dangerous for my skin and bleached my hair. What I unexpectedly discovered, however, is that traveling with a hat is amazing. The right hat completes a look and makes you look instantly chic while covering un-styled and/or dirty hair. Paired with over-sized sunglasses, you can even look great in photos with virtually no make up! See exhibit A. After discovering this little travel and life secret, I fully embraced the hat... even when I was not traveling.

Each season I add to my growing collection. I take very good care of my hats, you might even say obsessive. I keep them clean them and never bend the brims. When boater hats took off two seasons ago, I was in heaven, since I have always preferred structured hats over floppy hats.

This fall hats are going to be a major accessory. I feel like the hat is making a come back, and I couldn't be happier. The boater is here to stay (but in darker colors and heavier fabrics) along with the wide-brim fedora. But a new silhouette has burst on to the scene -- the Greek Fisherman cap. I am also thrilled to see that berets are back in a big way. Remember my all-time favorite hat, my petite beret?

People tend to feel like they are either a hat person or not a hat person. But trust me, if you feel like you are not a hat person, you just haven't found the right hat. If you are looking for a good trial hat, I would stick to the classic beret. Berets pretty much look good on everyone.

To get you started on your fall hat shopping, I have rounded up my favorites in each trending style below. Happy hat shopping!

The Fall Boater:

The Wide-Brim Fedora:

The Beret:

The Fisherman's Hat:

Are you a hat person?
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Ashley B
Weekend in St. Augustine

Weekend in St. Augustine

I decided to spend my last weekend in my home state exploring one of my favorite Florida cities, St. Augustine. I had not been in years, and I was quickly reminded why I have so many fond childhood memories from there. Of course, the city has changed over the years, and I was fortunate to have my friend Annmarie (a local and also my friend who lived in Venice this summer) to show me around.

We hit up all of the usual sights - Flagler College, the old fort, lighthouse, and the charming historic streets in and around St. George Street. The highlight of the day, however, was our brunch at Preserved. This restaurant serves up locally-sourced southern cuisine in a historic house complete with front porch. The ambiance is great, and the food is even better. We tried the shrimp and grits, oyster Eggs Benedict, and homemade scones and biscuits.

We spent the rest of our time at the beach, because as much as I am not exactly a beach person, I think I will miss living so close to the ocean most of all.

For a day of walking and exploring St. Augustine, I wore this adorable printed wrapped dress from Madewell. I like it because it is easy to wear, will transition into fall, and can be dressed up for work (with a blazer and heels) or down with a field jacket and sneakers for weekend adventures. There is something about sundresses and sneakers that I love. It is unexpected and insanely practical. I swear these Superstars look great with just about anything, and I am dying to get them in this great pink color.

Have you ever been to St. Augustine?


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Ashley B
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